It's no wonder they don't understand us right away.
from Diary 2023-07-05
It's no wonder they don't understand us right away.
The cost of understanding ideas supported by multiple perspectives is high.
So don't feel pain that they don't understand you.
the pain of not getting what one seeks.
Because of expectation of being understood, the reality of being not understood is painful.
That it's not the other person who's creating the pain, but you.
We should take it for granted that the cost of understanding is so high that it is not immediately understood.
So what do we do about it?
We have to accumulate a lot of descriptions from different angles.
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